An Instagram location sharing alternative that stays off the grid
Quick answer
Instagram lets friends share live location through DMs. Parages keeps location off any social network; the near-a-friend check runs on your phone and only you see it.
Instagram added location sharing to DMs, so now your dot can sit beside your messages for friends to glance at. Folding your whereabouts into a social feed is exactly what Parages avoids. There is no network, no profile, and no dot to share. You keep a private list of where your friends live, and the app nudges you when you drift near one of those places. The proximity check runs on your own phone, so nothing about your movement ever reaches a platform.
In one sentence
Parages pings you when you pass near a friend. It tracks nobody.